When looking at someone do you find yourself criticizing (or sizing up) that individual? Is our natural tendency to find the best in others? With those we love dearly, do we overlook offensive habits, egregious behavior and extend more grace? Is it possible for us to widen our circle of love (and hearts) to see the best in others we do not like?

Love God, love people

Matthew 22:36-39 (NIV)"Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?"  Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'

The Pharisees were attempting to trap Jesus with a clever question. They presented him with the entire law and asked him to pick a greatest command. Although their intent was to confound our Lord, they defined the boundaries of our faith and unity.