Isolation

Proverbs 18:1 one who isolates himself pursues [selfish] desires; he rebels against sound judgment (Holman CSB). Isolation is a fertile environment for the development of selfish ambitions, unsound doctrine and unhealthy independence. Sometimes the act of separation can be obvious and defined. Other times a long process of small separations can eventually create a sizable rift. Either scenario is displeasing to God. The heart of estrangement creates strife, alienation and ruptures in the fellowship.

An example of ungodly separation is 3 John 1:9-10.

I wrote something to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves to have first place among them, does not receive us. This is why, if I come, I will remind him of the works he is doing, slandering us with malicious words. And he is not satisfied with that! He not only refuses to welcome the brothers himself, but he even stops those who want to do so and expels them from the church. (Holman CSB)

Diotrephes' isolation stems from his desire to be first. The overwhelming pride and competitive spirit of Diotrephes moves him to slander brothers and cuts off those who want to maintain unity. The Restoration Movement has seen its share of “Diotrephes” like characters and yet we remain unwary of them. We are sentimental, unsure or lazy when dealing with such individuals. The emotional, spiritual and intellectual effort which needs to be exerted to deal with the divisive proves to be to great a cost and we allow separatists and megalomaniacs to roam freely among our fellowship. Let us be decisive and quick when dealing with these wolves.